Click here to read client reflections of their experiences with me. Below is a variety of frequently asked questions.

I came for the sex, I stayed for the flexible hours.

I’ve always ran a little hot and enjoyed the temptation of the flesh. They say if you do what you love, you never work a day in your life. Well, my libido is outrageous and I love sex, I think about it all the time, I’m a thirsty, thirsty babe. I was already rampantly horny and exploring widely, and was getting a lot of compliments on my skills in the bedroom. I decided to look into sexwork as an option because I felt I was more than capable, and years later here I am, still loving it.

It started out just being about sex but I also find meeting and connecting with gorgeous babes so incredibly rewarding. It’s really a passion project for me in every sense. I love that I get to impact people’s day and mood in such a positive way, seeing people leave with a spring in their step, or like a weight has been lifted, that gives me so much joy.

I’m able to pass on knowledge, give people a safe space for exploration, and make human touch and connection possible. I get that in return from my clients and love meeting people from all walks of life.

I also get to have this wild sex life that I always dreamed of having, bringing my own fantasies to work and making them reality on a regular basis.

Financially, I make a similar amount to a regular job, and there is a lot of behind the scenes admin, so that’s not specifically a drawcard. But if it’s this, or some boring office job, I pick this every day of the week!

So many! I do in-person standard and more unique girlfriend experiences, various kinky PSE (pornstar experience) offerings, social dates educational experiences and personal development coaching.

I like to give people as much information as possible so they know what they can expect, as this usually reduces anxiety about new experiences. I also find that a lot of people seeking my services, do not 100% know what it is that they want to experience or wide variety of options available. So, I have designed many specific experiences that you can choose from, that each have their own unique vibe, inclusions and prices. Check out my full menu of experiences.

Babe I’m more than just friendly, I’m enthusiastic and all in on queer love and sex. I’m pansexual and genderqueer myself. I love providing a safe haven for sexual exploration, as well as easy companionship, and part of that is being available to all genders, and for all configurations of sex. I’m a switch, vers, and baby-gay friendly as well.

I’m very experienced with navigating all sorts of gender dysphoria, gay panic, body dysmorphia and general anxiety. I’m great with a strap-on too, and own a wide variety of toys. Trans folk, non-binary babes, kinky or lifestyle cross-dressers, lesbians, nervous bi-curious beans – you’re all welcome. I tailored offer experiences for women and for trans folk as well.

I welcome bodies of all shapes and sizes, races, religions, abilities and genders, as long as you are aged 18 or over. I do not need to see a selfie of you to check if you are hot enough – this is irrelevant to me. What is relevant is that you must be respectful, provided all information requested, and practice proper hygiene. This includes showering directly before or at the start of a session, ensuring your hands are clean and your breath is fresh. I hold myself at the same standard.

Yes! I love group play so much! I offer a wide range of group play scenarios, including being a unicorn for a couple, being shared by friends, 3-ways, 4-ways and more-ways with my own friends joining us. I can even put together a reverse gangbang for you with an all-star cast. I also host semi-regular gangbang and orgy events that you can register your interest for. I am also happy to be your companion at a Swinger’s Party. Check out my Group Play page or reach out with your own partner-in-crime to arrange a sexy tryst. I love playing with my friends, it’s always a good time.

It’s completely normal to feel nervous before meeting someone for the first time. Many lovers who reach out to me are exploring this world for the first time, and it’s very common to have questions about how the process works, what will happen when we meet, or whether you’ll feel comfortable.
The truth is that most first meetings are far more relaxed than people expect. We usually start by chatting for a few minutes and getting comfortable with each other. From there, the experience unfolds naturally based on what you’ve booked and the kind of connection we share in the moment.
You don’t need to perform or know exactly what you’re doing. Curiosity, respect, and open communication go a long way. I’m very used to helping people settle their nerves and guiding the experience so that it feels safe, relaxed, and enjoyable for both of us.
If this is your first time and you’d like a more detailed explanation of how bookings work, what to expect when we meet, and how to prepare, head to my New Client Guide.

I include a wide variety of activities in my standard rates, and also have a PSE Extras option for $200. You can check out the full list of everything that I am willing to do and want to do on this page. Some of the dazzling Extras highlights include pegging and anal. I do not offer uncovered/natural oral or penetrative sex – condoms are always used. Read more about my PSE or BDSM offerings.

I absolutely am, this is my favourite way to spend time with lovers as we get to really slow down and enjoy each other. I love travel. If you’re interested in having some quality time with me, read more on my Overnights page or my Travel page.

That’s so lovely of you! You can view my wishlist here.

I prefer cash, but I also accept Beem to @emorgx. For digital services, I also accept payment via my Onlyfans, and Prezzee Gift Cards. For ongoing arrangements and larger payments, reach out to discuss the best form of payment for our situation. I understand discretion is important for some of you so I try to be flexible. PayID is only available for payments made in advance, to allow time for funds to hit my bank account, I cannot lock in our booking time or see you until the funds have hit my account and while Osko often provides immediate payment, it’s not a certainty.

I will sometimes ask for a non-refundable deposit, depending on the type and location of booking, as well as how far in advance the booking is.

My preferred deposit payment platform is Beem, but if this is not an option for you, we can discuss alternatives.

Deposits are to cover my costs and my time, as well as to discourage people from booking me if they are not serious about following through.

All pics on my website, including my gallery, are fairly recent, I also regularly updating my Bluesky and Instagram. I have Manyvids and Onlyfans if you would like to see some graphic footage of me and really suss me out prior to booking.

Yes, I keep up with all relevant vaccinations.

I complete full STI checks every 2 months, and as of my last check I am STI-free. I always use condoms for oral and penetrative sex. I take my sexual health very seriously.

If you would like to spend time with me, and have access to my location, my body and my time, then yes, you do. This is non-negotiable, if you are uncomfortable providing ID, a booking will not proceed. I take privacy and discretion very seriously, but I do need confirmation of your legal name and your age before I will proceed with most bookings. You are welcome to blur or obscure parts of your ID, such as ID# and your address.

Yeah! Quite regularly, actually. Here’s some more information about that.

Both are very common and I come across it very regularly. I welcome all bodies with all abilities, and ED and PE only become a problem if you make it one.

There’s a lot more to sex than Penis-in-vagina, and a lot more to enjoy about each others bodies than just that one act. I’m regularly having mind-blowing queer sex that has no penis-in-vagina action whatsoever, so I KNOW its not a problem for me.

I never walk into a session with any sort of expectation, aside from being treated with respect. Bring your curiosity with you and perhaps your hands and mouth, and we can have all sorts of fun. If ED or PE is something you would like to work on improving with me, with advice from your doctor, or techniques you heard about that you would like to try out, I am absolutely happy to assist. But I’m also happy to take the pressure off entirely and go a different route to pleasure, what happens, happens.

I have a lot to say about ED and PE, and would love for you to read my posts about them here:

Erectile Dysfunction or: How I learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Foreplay

Premature Ejaculation: Why Finishing Early Isn’t the End of the Experience

I welcome all bodies with all abilities, and your penis size will only become a problem if you make it one. I honestly couldn’t care less!

There’s a lot more to sex than Penis-in-vagina, and a lot more to enjoy about each others bodies than just that one act. I’m regularly having mind-blowing queer sex that has no penis-in-vagina action whatsoever, so I KNOW its not a problem for me.

Aside from that, there’s a lot of PIV fun to be had with a smaller penis, different sizes work better for different positions, and I have plenty of experience with a wide variety of sizes.

That’s a personal question that only you can answer. I can’t guarantee that you will cum during our time together AT ALL! Its not a priority for me, everybody has their own unique abilities and quirks. You might find yourself overcome with nerves and be unable to orgasm at all. You might have five in ya! I do not limit the amount of times that you can cum.

I love variety, but my go-to for an absolutely toe-curling damn-near-guaranteed orgasm is cowgirl, riding someone while they tweak my nipples and I use a vibrator. I do that a lot. I also love tribbing combined with nipple play. Nipple play is a very important factor in my orgasm. Please don’t forget. However much you think you should be touching my nipples, I guarantee you its more than that.

Nipple play – suck them, flick them, lightly squeeze or pull them. Please, please, please touch my nipples as much as possible. Everything feels better with nipple play. I also love slow sensual touch with lightly grazing fingers all over my body, eventually tracing their way to my vulva, delicately exploring my outer labia and occasionally teasing my clit. I’m sure you can figure out a way to suck my nipples at the same time. Also foot massages. Yes please. Making out and grinding is really hot too. Did I mention my nipples?

This varies a lot depending on my mood, but also based on the energy of the person I am with. I’m usually top-leaning, take what I want, lay still, touch this, do that, eat me out, fuck me harder, slower… Sometimes I can be quite dominant. It also depends if I have seen this person many times before, or if they are new, as once I know their likes and limits I can play around a bit more.

But sometimes, just sometimes, someone will walk in and just KNOW how to touch me in a way that makes me lose control and when that happens, I lean into that, I choose to let them lead and luxuriate in their touch.

Whichever kind of way I am feeling, I’m always deep in the sensations of my body, time stops, I will happily and un-self-consciously chase my own orgasms. Then once I’m a puddle, I will usually get them off too, and then we might cuddle and chat depending on the time.

Read more about Ember’s Choice or Ember’s Choice: The Directors Cut where I get even bossier.

It absolutely is! I want you to be comfortable for me, it is a very vulnerable space and its important you feel safe, and connected. I offer non-sexual social dates. I also recommend a digital date if you would like to have a few text or phone based conversations and flirtation prior to meeting in person.

I can and will if I receive a booking there first, but rarely tour unprompted. I am unlikely to tour regional towns, only major cities, and I will not tour in South Australia due criminalisation in that state. But all is not lost! Check out my FMTY page for details of how you can see me in your city.

I just adore these events and can’t wait for the next one!! But it requires your input. If you are interested in attending an event like this, let me know! Click HERE to register your interest. The more interest I get, the more likely it is that I will run an event.

No fingers! But also, check out my Menu page and you’ll find a list of my hard limits. In addition, there may be things I just don’t feel like doing on a particular day, so consent check-ins are always important, even if you have my limits list memorised.

If you’re interested in trying out something fresh and fun and have something in mind, you are welcome to run it past me to see what I think. I will respectfully decline if it’s something I don’t want to do, or let you know my limits specific to that scenario.

If you’d like a cheeky rendezvous on your way to work or before you go to the gym, you’ll be happy to note that I am a morning person and absolutely love morning sex. However, there have been numerous occasions in which I have gotten up early and prepared for a delicious time, only to be disappointed with a no-show. Technical difficulties with alarm clocks are usually cited as the issue.

To that end, though I welcome bookings from 5am onwards, all bookings before 9:30am will require a deposit payment of $200.

I will not be uncomfortable! This is not an issue for me at all. But my answer is too long for a FAQ page, so read a blog post about it HERE.

I do not have a typical client, but I do have a number of common archetypes. I have written a blog about this, you can read it here.

You absolutely can. Some requests are easier to fulfill than others, some would take more notice or additional fees. It really depends on the request! I also offer roleplay during sexting sessions. If you want a different type of session, but just want me to wear lingerie you saw in a recent pic, you’re welcome to ask, and if its possible to accommodate I absolutely will. Less decisions for me to make! I do not offer these during Ember’s Choice sessions.

Check out my BDSM page if you are interested in reading more about Roleplay.

Just ask me. You can message me on SMS or Whatsapp to 0435 349 800. Check out my Availability page for more information about my general patterns of availability – but I always welcome enquiries and if I can make it happen, I will make it happen.

I also make announcements about my availability on all of my social media channels. If you are someone that looks for same-day bookings, I recommend following me on one of the following platforms:
Telegram | Bluesky | Snapchat (on my stories). I have Instagram too but can’t talk about availability there.