Bisexual Group Play Experiences with Leo Lockwood
Beginner-Friendly Bi-Curious Exploration, or Something more intense
If you’ve been curious about exploring intimacy with another man, but the idea feels intimidating, awkward, or emotionally vulnerable, you’re not alone.
I absolutely adore group play and regularly engage with people of all genders, but the tenderest subject is always the idea of two men enjoying each other’s bodies.
The last few centuries of religious and patriarchal fervour has really done a number on our outlook. Something that was seen as quite natural and sensual in times gone by has been reframed as taboo and abhorrent, or even evil and disgusting. I have seen the mood changing over the last decade, but we still have a long way to go as a society and people are still loading something that can just be fun and sexy with deeper meaning.
You can’t just suck a dick because that seems like a hot thing to do. You have to examine your whole identity, you have to unpack shame and internal homophobia and think about all the people in your life and what they might think and the weight of all that makes the idea of kissing someone with stubble entirely less attractive and possibly terrifying and deeply confronting.
Though the title of this page is “bisexual or bi-curious”, I’m not actually here to label you. My view on labels is that they are simply a useful tool to help people find their communities. If you want that, great! I personally identify as all sorts of things and using my labels enables me to connect quicker with new people. They belong to me, they are for me. I personally align with the term Pansexual, which is a bisexual-adjacent term that means gender is irrelevant to my attraction to others. You don’t have to adopt any particular label just because you want to explore a more expansive version of your sexuality.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, or even heteroflexible. Perhaps you’re trying to figure out who you are, and if that is the case, I absolutely love this for you and would love to help curate some sexy experiments with you. But you don’t have to identify as any of these to have an enjoyable sexual experience. You can just come and play.
I always aim to create a space where people feel comfortable to explore pleasure for pleasures sake, free of judgment. A space where you can show up and be present in the moment, present in your body and just feel for what you want.
The most challenging space to achieve this is with guy-on-guy exploration, particularly with first-timers who are carrying all sorts of anxieties with them. It’s so important to find the right person to play with. And whether you want me there to hold your hand and guide you, or if you are ready to explore solo, I think the right person is Leo Lockwood.
Who is Leo Lockwood?
Leo Lockwood (they/them) is one of Melbourne’s most respected professional dominants, offering a range of delicious BDSM and Fetish services from their fully-equipped and very sexy dungeon-esque studio in Preston.
What you might not know about Leo is that they also provide sensual massage and intimate services that do not need to include BDSM or fetish elements at all.
Working in the BDSM space really brings consent and communication to the forefront and Leo has a beautiful ability to make people feel relaxed, accepted and comfortable to move at their own pace.
They’re attentive, affectionate, communicative, patient, and genuinely invested in creating experiences that feel good emotionally as well as physically. They are also fantastic at holding people while they explore their edges, desires and limits.
Like me, Leo is pansexual and enjoys playing with people of any gender, and has extensive experience working with men who are exploring a fuller expression of their sexuality for the first time.
Check out Leo’s website here: leoprovides.com.
Sensual Doubles Experiences with Ember and Leo
If you’ve been curious about exploring intimacy with someone of the penis-owning variety, but the idea feels intimidating, awkward, or emotionally vulnerable, doubles sessions with Leo Lockwood and I can offer a really warm and supportive way to explore that curiosity.
These sessions are designed for men wanting a safe, affirming, low-pressure environment to explore attraction, touch, intimacy, or sexual experiences with someone who has a soft, welcoming energy and a very lovely cock (can confirm), perhaps for the first time.
One thing I think can make these experiences feel much less intimidating is having me there throughout the process as both an emotional support person and an active part of the chemistry and sensuality of the experience.
For some people, that means feeling more relaxed because there’s still a woman present throughout the dynamic. For others, it means having someone there to help guide the energy, maintain emotional connection, encourage exploration gently, and help things continue feeling sexy rather than pressured or clinical.
And importantly, there’s no expectation that the experience has to unfold in a particular way. Leo and I are both adaptable and will comfortably pivot into other activities, if you change your mind.
You might discover that you love masculine intimacy and want to explore that deeply. You might discover that you only want a small amount of exploration before returning your focus toward me. You might simply enjoy the atmosphere, closeness, flirtation, and emotional safety of the experience itself. You also might totally freak out and need a hug and a cup of tea.
All of those outcomes are completely welcome.
What Leo and I want to offer together is a space where exploration can feel exciting rather than intimidating, with warmth, emotional support, sensuality, and genuine care woven through the experience.
Leo and I are completely comfortable playing with each other as well, or keeping the focus entirely on you.
Pegging, BDSM and Kink Exploration
While the main focus of this page is really the sensual side of what Leo and I can offer together, BDSM and fetish play are absolutely available for people who want to explore that too.
Leo is highly skilled in BDSM, power exchange, psychological play, and fetish exploration, and has an incredible studio in Preston purpose-built for immersive kink experiences.
If you are interested in incorporating BDSM into a doubles session, I would genuinely love to accompany you into that space and create something exciting together.
I’m happy to be involved in whatever role you like, whether that is joining Leo as a dominant, being submissive myself, or simply holding your hand throughout the experience.
One idea that excites many men is the thought of having a dick in their mouth while I am pegging them, and we can explore that in a sensual way, or with a domination dynamic.
But importantly, BDSM, kink and fetish is completely optional here, even if you choose Leo’s Preston studio location for our time together.
You do not need to identify as kinky or experienced to enjoy sessions with Leo and I.
Beginner-Friendly and Consent Focused
Both Leo and I care deeply about consent, emotional safety, communication, and creating an environment where people feel comfortable expressing uncertainty or vulnerability.
A lot of people exploring bisexuality or queer curiosity later in life carry nervousness, shame, fear, or self-consciousness around those feelings.
We approach that gently.
There is no pressure to “perform”, rush into things, or push beyond your comfort level.
Everything unfolds collaboratively and at your pace.
Availability and Locations
Doubles sessions with Leo are available in Melbourne and Geelong.
Depending on your preference, sessions may take place at my Keilor incall, Melbourne CBD hotels, or Leo’s Preston studio.
We can also arrange sessions in Geelong at my Armstrong Creek incall space.
Investment
Below are the prices for both of us together.
| Duration | Investment |
| 1 hour | $1,200 |
| 1.5 hours | $1,600 |
| 2 hours | $2,100 |
| 3 hours | $2,700 |
| Additional hours | $800 |
Start the Conversation
If you’re interested in arranging a session with Leo and I, you can message me via SMS or Whatsapp to 0435 349 800, fill in my Booking Form, or send an email to contact@emberorgana.com to tell me about what you are imagining.
If you would like to discuss in further detail before you commit, both Leo and I offer consultations. You can read more about my consultations on my Planning page.
You do not need to arrive with certainty or plans for an identity shift. Curiosity is enough.
