oh my GOD I love my Job

Oh what fun I have been having lately. And what fun I have in store…

I’m especially excited about the variety of upcoming orgies and group play events on my calendar, including two that I am hosting myself (want to come? Click here).

But it’s not just the group play that I love.

I really value my one-on-one time with lovers too. Those slower moments where we get to connect on a deeper level. Sometimes that looks like a quiet & cuddly session, sometimes a dinner date followed by a sexy rendezvous, and sometimes a spontaneous lunchtime escape together.

People talk a lot about the sex part of sex work, but there’s a whole other layer of intimacy that rarely gets talked about.

If you’re lucky, you’ve probably experienced this feeling before.

You go on a date with someone you’re just getting to know and it goes wonderfully. The conversation flows, the flirtation is effortless, the chemistry is undeniable. You leave the date grinning from ear to ear, full of energy and possibility.

Maybe there was wildly hot sex. Maybe there wasn’t.

Either way, you walk away feeling giddy, hopeful, invigorated.

For some people this feeling happens once in a lifetime.

I get to experience it most weeks, with all sorts of different humans.

After a beautiful session I often leave with that same post-date high. That hazy, blissed-out feeling where everything feels a little brighter. Deliciously happy, a little goofy, walking down the street smiling at nothing in particular. Sometimes I can’t even remember where I parked my car.

These beautiful humans set aside time and money to come share an experience with me, and they arrive with the intention of enjoying themselves. Their enthusiasm is contagious.

When a lover shows up open, curious and excited to connect, it creates a space where something genuinely joyful can happen between us.

Whether it’s a hot kinky adventure, a slow sensual afternoon, or an animated conversation over a shared meal, I love that moment where our energies mingle for a while.

It’s harder to create that feeling in a quick 30 minute visit, but when I spend 90 minutes or longer with someone, I’m almost always floating on cloud nine afterwards.

I know many of the gorgeous souls who make these experiences so wonderful are the same people reading my newsletter or taking the time to read my blog.

So thank you.

Thank you for the way you show care, acceptance and appreciation. Thank you for the way you share yourselves with me and trust me with your time.

And thank you, of course, for all the climaxes.

Connection and joy are two of my deepest values in life. You make it very easy to live by them.