oh my GOD I love my Job
Oh what fun I have been having lately! And what fun I have in store… I am so excited for the variety of upcoming orgies I have on my calendar, including the two events I am hosting (want to come? Click here).
But it’s not just the group play that I love! I really value my one-on-one time, getting to connect on a deeper level, whether its a quiet cuddly rise n grind, a dinner date followed by a sexy rendezvous back at the hotel, or a lunch time fling. People talk a lot about the sex part of sexwork but there’s a whole other layer of intimacy going on there that rarely gets talked about.
If you’re lucky you’ll have experienced this feeling – you go on a date with someone you’re just getting to know, and it goes very well. The conversation flows, there’s delicious flirtatious energy, chemistry, mentally stimulating conversation, you’re thinking wow I think I really like this one. Maybe there’s even some wildly hot connective sex, maybe not! But either way, you leave the date on a high, grinning ear to ear, hopeful, giddy, invigorated.
For some this feeling is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. I get to have it most weeks, with all different types of people. I regularly get these post-date highs after spending time with a client. If it was rare I would probably mistake it for love. Its that potent. I get a tremendous amount of joy, endorphins, dopamine, from connecting with others, from great sex, from great conversation, from meeting someone new, and also from feeling like I gave that person some memories to cherish. Whether its a hot kinky time, a slow sensual time, or an excitable chat over a shared meal, it’s wonderful to mingle energies for a while. Its harder to get that out of a 30min quickie, but when I see someone for 90mins+ I’m almost always on cloud nine afterwards.
Delicious, hazy, goofy, happy, blissed out, the sun is shining on me, life is good, can’t remember where I parked my car but who cares! These beautiful humans that put time and a good deal of money aside so they can spend it with me, they come into the space with and intention of enjoying themselves and their enthusiasm is contagious.
I know that most of these gorgeous souls that put effort into ensuring I enjoy myself are the same people that are subscribed to my newsletter, where I first wrote these words, or here now taking the time to read my blog. So, thank you. Thank you for the way you show your care, acceptance and appreciation. Thank you for the way you share yourself with me, and put your trust in me. And thank you for all the climaxes!
The pursuit of connection and joy are two of my top values in life and you make it so easy.
